One “traditional bride,” or “traditional bride,” who struggles with low libido, spoke about how opening her marriage has helped their relationship grow stronger – although she refuses to sleep with other men.
OnlyFans model Monica Huldt, 37, who lives in Arizona, US, says she is “kind of a one-man woman,” but see John, 40, with others women is exciting.
“I always knew my husband was interested in a threesome, but we never really sat down and talked about doing it seriously,” said Monica, from Sweden.
“In Sweden, people don’t really do this stuff or even talk about it.
“On top of that, I was brought up in the Catholic religion, so sex was super taboo at home, I wasn’t even allowed to date growing boys.
“I trust my husband 100%, and I think including other people in our marriage has made our sex life so great and overall made our marriage so much stronger.”
Monica, who recently made headlines for saying she thought more women should adopting a domestic role of “traditional woman” at home, first began struggling with low libido while working as a stripper in 2015.
She said: “Before I worked online I was doing daily shifts as a dancer in a strip club and it made me really indifferent to sex.
“I was with men my entire work week, being watched and constantly being kind, it made me feel pretty miserable afterwards.
“It really cooled my mood and when I got home I didn’t want to have sex or even be touched by my husband.
“It obviously wasn’t good for our sex life or our relationship.
“We went through very difficult times because of my lack of libido and privacy.
“It was really difficult.”
Monica felt “down and down” about her job, and the couple barely had sex once a month.
She attributes the launch of her OnlyFans account to the increase in her libido, and now she earns around $ 150,000 (around £ 108,630) per month on the platform.
However, she still struggles with her desire for privacy, which is why she allowed their marriage to open up, starting with a threesome.
Monica said, “I knew John had always wanted a threesome, but I had always been afraid that he would have feelings for someone else.
“He never gave me any reason to question his loyalty, but I’ve always been paranoid, overprotective and jealous.
“In the past, this had really strained our relationship.
“I was a little worried, but we decided to give the trio a try. I really enjoyed it and found it very exciting, but I had to relax.
“The first time was just for fun, but the second time we filmed it for my OnlyFans account.
“I was surprised how comfortable I felt with it and loved seeing my husband with other girls – something I never thought would happen.”
After the successful threesome, Monica suggested that John start his own OnlyFans page and told him that he could have sex with whomever he wanted.
She said: “I thought to myself that we are already shooting with others, why not have two pages and he can shoot alone with the girls?”
“It’s fun for him and lucrative.
“He’s having fun and that makes me happy and I also help him film.
“John is extremely great when it comes to touring with other girls and he makes me feel very comfortable with that.
“We are all like one big happy family.
“It really helped our marriage a lot and I have a whole different take on sex.”
Currently, John only has sex with other women for his OnlyFans.
“He wouldn’t go on dates with them, he’s not interested in that side of things, it’s just physical,” she said.
“Most of the time we will be at home, but we will also often go to a hotel or an Airbnb.
“We are friends with a lot of women, so I never feel threatened.
“He texts them and talks to them, but nothing about it is a secret. I am always on top of everything.
“We all go out to dinner sometimes, but he never goes out alone with them.”
John added, “Doing OnlyFans with Monica was really awesome.
“It kind of just happened by accident and then escalated into something bigger, but it definitely brought us closer together.
“It’s a lot of work, but it also gave us a life we wouldn’t have had otherwise.”
Monica says she doesn’t care about other men.
She said: ‘I am a unique woman. If I’m with a person, I’m only with that person – I have to have a personal connection with the men I have sex with.
“Although I have sex with girls, I like the idea that John is the only man in my life, it makes me more special.
‘However, I don’t mind sharing my husband. I find that sexy. ‘
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